Check your own issues with fatness before telling me to check mine.I don't know what the motivation is for guys who try to get me on their shoulders at concerts or attempt to lift me gently into bed."We went with the Tinder formula because obviously it works for them," Li said."Though we tend to be more focused around body positivity.I have experienced sexual assault and trauma in my life.A lot of fat women have -- the ACE scores study suggest that at least some cases of obesity are biologically related to childhood trauma -- but I don't need you to psychoanalyze me, to explain to me why I'm fat, or to try and "fix" me somehow. I got over guys who wanted to sleep with me but weren't willing to be seen in public with me a long time ago.Transit -- from buses and taxis all the way to airplanes -- can lead to downright hostile environments.
Based on the successful Tinder model, users can swipe left or right on nearby profiles and see if there's a match in the works.
If there's an attraction between us, you'll know it, and whatever desires that sparks, let's talk about them.
Don't just assume I'm all in because I'm sex-positive, fat, and sometimes femme.
After all, as Li points out, not every person looking for love necessarily has a 'but it must come in a size eight' clause attached.
"We know full well there are a lot of plus sized women who are absolutely adored because of their larger size," Li said.